Family & Relationships What To Do If Your Husband Isn't Attracted To You Anymore

21:32  04 october  2017
21:32  04 october  2017 Source:   YourTango

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In this video, Sherri Amatenstein discusses the possibility of happiness in a sexless marriage. Is it possible? Here are 6 tips on what to do if your husband isn ’ t If you have been in a relationship for awhile, you know this isn ’ t true. Relationships are not rocket science, but they do require work.

He says he doesn't love you , not attracted to you and had an affair - why would you even entertai…n the thought of staying with the guy. How can you tell if your husband isn ' t interested in you anymore ?

image© Provided by NewsCred image In the beginning, the sex is great. It's new and exciting. Then things changed.

This is a big relationship challenge but is actually more common than you think.

A lot of women don't like to talk about it. Maybe, you feel embarrassed or like there is something wrong with you. Don't blame yourself. It takes two to make a relationship work.

In the beginning, the sex is great. It's new and exciting. You know he can't wait to get his hands on you. But, over time, things change. You have a house, children, and a demanding job.

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My husband isn ’ t atteacted to me anymore and i havent gained weight or changed the way i look. Im very hurt. When i ask to spend time with him he gets defensive and this is when he told me he wasn’ t attracted to me anymore and he said i looked slutty.

6 Believe that you are sexy. When your husband doesn’ t find you attractive , it can hurt your self-esteem. This can cause you to be resentful towards your husband . Sex is one of the most meaningful parts of a relationship.

When was the last time you had fun together? I'm talking about spending time together laughing. Fun is the glue in a relationship. Fun is what helps get you through the difficult times.

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Here are 6 tips on what to do if your husband isn't attracted to you anymore. This is how you bring back that spark in your relationship:

1. Try something new.

It's time to step out of your comfort zone. Break away from the same day-to-day routine. The two of you could call in sick on a Wednesday. Jump out on an airplane together. Try a new exotic restaurant. Go on a weekend getaway trip at the last minute.

Be spontaneous together and try a new adventure. This will help bring some of that excitement back to the relationship, that you had in the beginning.

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And you don' t feel beautiful anymore either. It's a strangely vulnerable feeling, but if you can last for a few minutes, this practice can have an affect on how much your husband is attracted to you .

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2. Play Twister together.

It's easy as an adult to forget to play. You forget how important it is to play. When you play a game like Twister (clothing optional), you have to touch one another.

Touch is important. The more you play together and touch one another, the better. The next time you are in the kitchen, rub up against him for no reason.

3. Talk, talk, talk.

I know this one sounds simple. But, many couples get away from it. Now, I'm not talking about things you have to talk about, like the kids or logistics. I'm talking about a really good conversation with your partner.

This is where one person is the speaker and one person is the listener. Make sure to listen with empathy to one another. You need to know the important things that are happening in one another's lives. Set aside time daily for this.

4. Work at it.

You live in a society where you are led to believe, that once you get married, everything will fall in its place. If you have been in a relationship for awhile, you know this isn't true.

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A reader asks: I just don' t find my husband attractive anymore . Would it help if he lost weight? Helped around the house? I find myself so resentful lately it's hard to love him. She writes: I just don’ t feel attracted to my husband anymore .

3 secrets every woman should NEVER confess to her husband . 5 signs your spouse doesn't love you anymore . You haven't failed. Remember that. If your husband isn ' t attracted to you , it's not your fault.

Relationships are not rocket science, but they do require work. Don't be afraid to ask your partner questions or let your partner know how you are feeling and what you need. Be open to your partner's ideas. This is known as accepting influence from your partner.

These small things will make a big difference in the long run. Your hard work will have a big payoff.

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5. Stop the blame game.

A relationship is not "I" it's, "We". You're in it together. This is where compromise comes in. When you don't compromise in a relationship, you create the I win, we/we lose scenario. In the end, everybody gets hurt.

This is where talking has a big payoff. Try to work on understanding your partner and being patient with your partner.

6. Believe that you are sexy.

When your husband doesn't find you attractive, it can hurt your self-esteem. Start by looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you are sexy. Then spend time on yourself.

Take a bubble bath, buy some new expensive mascara, wear that sexy black dress, or buy some sexy lingerie. After being married for a while, it's easy to put yourself last. This can cause you to be resentful towards your husband.

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Signs that your husband is not attracted to you anymore ? well if you dont put out enough that could be it guys like to have lots and lots of sex i mean come on now. But if they want to do anal then hunny news flash their GAY!

Sex is one of the most meaningful parts of a relationship. Good sex starts with a good friendship. You don't want to feel like your partner is trying to change you.

I see this a lot, where problems in the relationship come out in your sex life. Try asking your husband what is really bothering him. Then, don't get defensive with his answer.

Lianne Avila is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in San Mateo, CA. She has helped many couples bring back the intimacy in their relationship. For more information, please Lessons for Love.

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So, if your husband ’s not acting this way anymore and you want to get your husband back, the first thing you need to do is to believe it’s possible. Suddenly, he’ll see the woman who attracted him so deeply during the early stages of your relationship, and his passion will be re–ignited.

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10 Undeniable Signs You Should Break Up With Him (The Sooner, The Better) .
You both deserve more. 1. You don't see a future with him. What he wants for his future and what you want for yourself are not the same. Both of you are growing and wanting to go in different directions. He is sweetly persuading you to compromise your goals to align with him, but you can feel in your bones that it's not the right thing to do. And you know better not to prioritize someone's dreams over yours.2. You feel alone in your relationship.You feel trapped whenever you're beside him. It's like you don't know who you are anymore because he keeps asking you to change for him.

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